Accountability Is Not Betrayal

 

“Better an open rebuke than love that is concealed. Wounds from a friend are received as well meant, but an enemy’s kisses are deceitful.”

—Proverbs 27:5–6 (CJB)

 

Real brotherhood doesn’t look the other way when patterns keep a man stuck. Growth requires ownership. We cannot move forward while blaming others or excusing our own choices. Love that never confronts eventually becomes enablement—and enablement keeps chains in place. A true brother stands firm, speaks truth, and refuses to participate in cycles that harm.

 

If God has placed a brother in your path, love him enough to be honest—and humble enough to receive honesty in return. Truth spoken in love heals, even when it stings. “Iron sharpens iron” (Proverbs 27:17). Stand firm. Walk forward. Choose growth together.

 

 

-Rev Carlos Figueroa

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